Some thoughts on love.

You can’t love without risk. Sometimes, love is a terrible idea, except that it’s not an idea. Sometime love leaves suddenly and it’s as if you were lying to the other person all this time, or they were lying to you. Sometimes you want to be loved back and you think if they’ll just hear your case, if you present the evidence before them as if in a court of law, they will concede to your argument, and love you the way you love them, forever even, and then you’ll both get to be happy. But that’s not how it works. You jump from the plane and hope your parachute opens. The other person is that parachute. So if you can, jump over water, and from not too great of a height.

What?

I'm not the best son that you could ever have. Neither the smartest nor gifted person in any field, and even I fell short to meet your high-sky expectations of what you guys would really want your ideal son to be.

Isip.

Nakakatuwa naman.
Nagiging maayos na ang lahat.



ako na lang yata ang hindi. :)

Gooo.

I like your smile, I like your vibe, I like your style, but that's not why I love you.
I like the way you're such a star, but that's not why I love you.
I like the way you misbehave when we get wasted, but that's not why I love you.
I like how you keep your cool when I am complicate, but that's not why I love you.

You're beautiful but that's not why I love you
I'm not sure you know that the reason I love you,
is you being you, just you.
Yeah the reason I love you is all that we've been through
And that's why I love you.

Hey
Do you feel, do you feel me?
Do you feel what I feel too?
Do you need, do you need me?
Do you need me?
I am always here for you.

Loner

I quit, I give up
Nothing’s good enough for anybody else It seems
 Everything is temporary anyway
When the streets are wet
The color slip into the sky
And being alone
Is the best way to be
When I’m by myself it’s
The best way to be
When I’m all alone it’s
The best way to be
When I’m by myself
Nobody else can say

Risk.

By nature, scary. It's uncertain and unpredictable. You're heading off into uncharted territory. You may lose your life savings or lose face. You risk criticism and humiliation, or having to pick up the pieces and start all over again. You're giving up what you know for what might be. The rewards can be great, but so can the cost.

Risks and Photography

Most people are so afraid of losing that they never get in the game, so they can never win. They spend their lives in fear of losing their jobs, and never break out on their own and become billionaires as some other American does every week. Did Mark Zuckerberg founder of Facebook become a billionaire while working for Yahoo? I think not.

It's all about learning to take risks. It's safest in the short term to work for someone else and let them take the risks for you, but long term, you're never going to get rich or famous working for someone else. Heck, when your employer loses the game, you all get fired anyway when he goes out of business, so why would anyone work for someone else? Laziness and fear, that's why, but that's another day's story.

So how does this relate to photography? Simple: the best photos happen only when you take the risks to get them. Just like life, you can't win if you're not even in the game. You have to be willing to lose a few in order to win big.

Holding on, holding on.

Well i just have to consider this,
"Suicide is not chosen; it happens when pain exceeds resources for coping with pain."

That's all it's about. You are not a bad person, or crazy, or weak, or flawed, because you feel suicidal. It doesn't even mean that you really want to die - it only means that you have more pain than you can cope with right now. If I start piling weights on your shoulders, you will eventually collapse if I add enough weights... no matter how much you want to remain standing. Willpower has nothing to do with it. Of course you would cheer yourself up, if you could.

Don't accept it if someone tells you, "That's not enough to be suicidal about." There are many kinds of pain that may lead to suicide. Whether or not the pain is bearable may differ from person to person. What might be bearable to someone else, may not be bearable to you. The point at which the pain becomes unbearable depends on what kinds of coping resources you have. Individuals vary greatly in their capacity to withstand pain.

When pain exceeds pain-coping resources, suicidal feelings are the result. Suicide is neither wrong nor right; it is not a defect of character; it is morally neutral. It is simply an imbalance of pain versus coping resources.

Think about.

I hate the idea of arguing. The idea of debating is something I like.

I state my opinion, you state yours. I state why i feel that way and you state yours.
In the end if you convince me I can change my opinion and vice versa.

With arguing it's totally different. There is no persuading the other person to see your side of view by backing up your opinion with either fact or some sort of relevant idea as to why you're right.

It's just you spouting your views onto someone. And after all the yelling and screaming or whatever, both of you will walk away frustrated with the same opinions or view that you started with. Such a waste of time and breath.

I approach disagreements totally different. I start out debating the issues with you. Once I see that you are not willing to engage in a simple debate then I just state my case and move on.

There's no need to sit here and go back and forth with you when I know and you know that once it's all said and done, I'm still going to think what I think and you'll still think what you think.

Arguing is pointless. I mean who does that? why argue just to argue? why am I going to waste my time arguing with you when I know I can't change your mind on the subject? I'm about opening people's minds to other things not just ramming my opinion down your throat.

Am I wrong for wanting to know why you feel so strongly about something anyway?
I mean if you feel like Magnum Ice Cream is better than Twin Pops than wouldn't you have some ideas to back it up? Right?

I know there are more serious and/or important issues than ice cream but I just used that as an example so you can get my drift. Plus I have the taste for some DQ mango cheesecake :)) on my brain. :P~

So once again, please don't argue with fools but rather debate with dummies all day... xP

Peace

Spill.

You wear this crown does it make you feel, like everyone is listening hanging on your every word. I'm staring at your insides and i see what's running through you, why won't you ever let this go. You used to be my worst enemy clever and you're thinking of ways to get out of this one. What we had wasn't always easy, what we had wasn't all that bad. Always, i am drawn closer to the end, i will always remember you even through all the worst times that we've had and you were always there for me. Hands down you're the best thing yet that's happened and still everyone listens to you...

EarlyRise - Wasteland

For so many years you were locked away

And you never really got the opportunity

To blossom, and pass on your masterpiece creation

They're so ignorant, they don't understand

You were always longing for a chance

To abandon this wasteland and never have to pretend

Everything's okay

And you're the same as everybody else

So stop apologizing

There's nothing wrong with being different

Despite their accusations

You've always proven that you're better

Take a look around, everything you see

Is their twisted version of reality

They live in, and you've been forced to believe them

Erase your memories from so long ago

Now you're capable of so much more

Just let go, now you know exactly what you're here for

Everything's okay

You're not the same as everybody else

So stop apologizing

There's nothing wrong with being different

Despite their accusations

You've always proven that you're better

:)

It's suffocating to say,

But the female mystique takes my breath away.

So give me a smile or give me a sneer,

'Cause I'm trying to guess here.

You, Yourself, Who else.

You are, of course, nothing without a social order to back her up: family, culture, values and heritage. Even more, what makes us feel good about ourselves is when we accomplish something on a scale bigger than ourselves. The real mountains to climb in life are solitary quests, but we’re not doing it for ourselves. We’re doing it for a collective effort. Instead of individualism, we should view our interaction with society as a sacred role where by doing good, we feel good about ourselves.

But in some case people tend to over look when we have this concept of individualism. Sometimes in our lives we just need ourselves in order to be good. We don't need those fancy crying shoulder friends. Who else would know yourself? They haven't been in your shoes. It's just fine to have time alone. Comforting and seeking peace within yourself.

And also that is why we have this so called freedom. This word requires an object, as in “freedom from something,” and that creates an inherently negative outlook. In order to have freedom, you must get rid of all of those objects. Soon you have nothing but yourself. It makes sense instead to say that you desire independence, or some space in life where you have domain and can experiment, play and create. This space probably doesn't need to be as big as you’d think, since there’s actually not much variation in what most of us do in life.

Anyways can't think of much more. Hope somehow you get the point. hahaha i don't even think there is a good one :p ;)

Love is about.

Love is about who you want…
 But having them is about when.

 Getting off a train when it’s moving,
 and when it has stopped makes a huge difference.

 Dont force yourself to love and commit.

 In your own time, the right love and
the right moment will both fall into place.

 The right love at the wrong time is just as terrible
 as having the shoe of the right size on the wrong foot.

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Your Dreams.

Am I pursuing my dream, or is fear stopping me? What have you always wanted to do? Maybe something you dreamed of as a child but have given up as unrealistic? Maybe something you still want to do but are afraid of failing? What fears are stopping you? And what would be the worst that could happen if you overcame those fears and pursued your dream?

Who do you love?

Who do I love, and what am I doing about it? When someone dies you realize that you never know how much time you have with the people you love. They can go at any time — as can you. And so you must make the most of this time.

If you aren’t spending time with the people you love, change that. If you are holding a grudge against a family member, let it go and reconcile. If you’ve done something to hurt a loved one, ask for forgiveness. Drop the pride, and make up. If you haven’t seen someone in awhile, call them now to set up a date.

Fear.

No sleep today. Can't even rest when the suns down. No time. Theres not enough and nobodys watchin me now.  When we were children we'd play Out in the streets just dipped in fate When we were children we'd say That we don't the meaning of Fear, fear, fear, Fear, fear, fear We dont know the meaning of..  Wish I Didn't know the meaning of...

We all have.

we all have unchangeable parts of our hearts that we will not betray and private commitments to a vision of life that we will not deny.

Hello there!

These past few days wala talaga ako sa mood magsulat. Feeling ko wala naming malaking even na nangyayari sa buhay ko to blog about. Feeling ko, boring ang buhay ko. Kaya wala kong maisulat. Pero I think, mali ako to think that way. Hindi naman natin kailangang magkaroon ng malaking event o happening in life para ma-consider na hindi nga talaga boring ang buhay. Na okay ka. Na kontento ka. O kaya naman, na masaya ka. Dapat, sine-celebrate pa rin natin ang buhay whatever happens. Kaya dapat kahit feeling ko nothing’s good or eventful ang nangyayari sa everyday life ko, I should have a reason to write something ’cause imposible na walang nangyari sa buhay sa bawat minutong nagdadaan.

Ewan ko nga ba, bakit minsan I think that way. That, my life’s boring. Kapag tinatanong ako ng friends ko, ‘O, what’s new?’ , wala akong masabi. Kasi wala naman talagang bago. Pero siguro rin, ine-equate ko yung mga life changing events or happenings sa buhay para lang masabi ko na, ‘yeah, may something new sa buhay ko..’. Na siguro dapat hindi ganito yung attitude ko.

The reason I posted this is because I’ve been noticing nga na mostly puro rants and complaints lang yata narerelate ko. Puro negative vibes in life. Na even ako nasusuya na rin hehehe:) Though I acknowledge the fact that what you feel at the moment whether it’s anger, annoyance, disappointments, happiness, etc., those are valid feelings kasi it’s based on one’s own encounter and experience. That I can rant about them all I want pero at the end of the day, I should try to get over it and move on. There are so many things in life na mas maganda i-appreciate. Well, actually ganon naman ako. Kaya nga sometimes when I write something negative, then friends will ask me about it, usually sinasabi ko, ‘wala na yon. okay na’ko.’ Siguro lang talaga, we need an outlet to release and this is one outlet for me. Marami lang talagang facts in life na sometimes hindi maganda. Pero okay lang, part yon eh. Usually sinapsyche ko lang sarili ko. Na, this is just today, just one day sa loob ng isang taon, marami pang mga araw..marami pang bukas. Well, enough of this. hehehehe :3