"The Greatest Irony of Love"

Just read this. This might give you some insights. ;)

The greatest irony of love: Loving the right person at the wrong time or having the wrong person when the time is right; finding out you love someone after that person walks out of your life. For some, they think that letting go is one way of expressing how much they love that person. Some are afraid to see the one they love being held by someone else. Most relationships tend to fail not because of the absence of love, but because love is always present. It's just that one was being loved too much, and the other was being loved too little. Most often, we fall in love with the person we think we love, but to only discover that for them we are just for past times. While the one who truly loves us remains either your friend or a stranger.

When you think of your past love; you may view it as a failure; but when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What's important is that you know when to hold on and when to let go. You know that you love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you're not apart of it. Everything happens for a reason and for its best. If the person you love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try.

You'll never truly love a person, unless you risk for their love; love strives in hurting. If you don't get hurt, then you won't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time; though the hurting is there to test you, to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you; that's why it's called falling in love, because you don't need to force yourself to love, you just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing the chapters. If you want to move on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages.

Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. But why is it that the greatest irony of love is letting go when you want to hold on, and holding on when you need to let go? You can never find the right person if you can never let it go of the wrong, but at the same time the moment you feel like letting go, you remember why you held on for so long. Sometimes you have to forget what you want and remember what you deserve.
To love is to risk rejection, to live is to risk dying and to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing at all. To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose your true self. To love is to risk not being loved in return.

How to define love: Fall but do not stumble. Be constant but not too persistent. Share and never be unfair. Understand and try not to demand. Hurt but never keep the pain.
Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end. Loving people means giving them the freedom; whom they choose to be and where they choose to go. Loving someone means giving them the freedom to find their way, whether it leads towards you or away from you.

Love can be a painful risk. To love means that risk must be taken, no matter how scary or painful, for only then will you experience the fullness of humanity of what we call love. If you're not ready to cry, if you're not ready to take the risk and if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.

yung may...

yung may babati sayo ng good morning.

yung may nagtatanong sayo kung kumaen ka na.

yung may nagpapaalam sayo.

yung may laging kumakamusta sayo.

yung may mangungulit sayo pero ngingitian ka at yayakapin bigla.

yung may nagbibigay sayo ng random sweet kisses.

yung may napagsasabihan ka ng problema.

yung may napaglalabasan ka ng sama ng loob.

yung may tatanggap sa kahit anong reklamo mo.

yung may sasama sayo kung saan mo gusto pumunta.

yung may nagtatampo sayo kasi may nakaligtaan ka.

yung may pinapangiti ka dahil sa ngiti mo.

yung may nag-aalala sayo kapag hindi ka maayos.

yung may yayakap sayo kapag nilalamig ka.

yung may nagbibigay sayo ng mga simpleng bagay na sobrang nakakasaya.

yung may nagmomotivate sayo.

yung may nag cheecheer sayo.

yung may laging nagpapaalala sayo ng mga bagay bagay.

yung may nagtitiyaga sayo kahit hindi ka niya maintindihan.

yung may laging nandyan para sayo.

yung may naggogoodnight sayo.

yung may nagpapangiti sayo kahit busangot mukha mo.

yung may tatawa sa mga napaka korni mong jokes.

yung may magpupunas ng mga luha mo.

yung may nag-aalaga sayo.

yung may nasasandalan ka.

yung may nagmamahal sayo.

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Why can't I fight this feeling, is there any way to endure this loneliness that consumes me inside.
I always whisper all the things I feel for you but deep down I know I want it to be heard.

Why can't I say it that deep down I want to give you. One perfect slow dance, the way you want me to.
I won't say a word nor tell you sweet words, I will just hold you as if it's my last.

I have you but yet I don't, you are close but yet so far away.
Oh I'm just too weak to face the truth hat I love you,
I love you 'cause I'm afraid we can never be.

who cares anyway.

The past few months have been quite grueling because I feel like I am starting to lose grip of who I am..

...

But no one would listen 'Cause no one else cared