Shandelzare

Actually I've posted this way back before. But got to place it here for my friend.
So there I got to think of my other friend's story about his ex and what happened. Reading his ex's blog which he shared to me.
I come to think about being bitter with ex-partners or whatever or being bitter to the "newone" of your ex.

Some actually wants revenge to what happened.
Actually I also had this feeling, but how can I take revenge with someone i loved? easy as that. Anyways, getting revenge on your Ex will bring you instant satisfaction but do little for your happiness.

There is just an ugliness to it that can change your personality.
Your obsession is founded in the idea you seem to be the only one hurting after the breakup.
What you really need to do is take care of your own feelings and let your Ex go.

If you are interested in how to quit hurting then read this.
It is understandable how you must feel right now.
You got dumped and it doesn't seem to bother them or sort of.
That just adds to the frustration you feel.

You want a quick cure, some satisfaction for how you feel, and you want your Ex to feel as bad as you do.
Truth is that seeking revenge is not going to guarantee you'll get what you were expecting and the best thing to do is to work on your broken heart, moving on, and one day you'll be happy with some one who won't hurt you like your Ex did.

That will be a better feeling then getting revenge now.
Taking out your revenge now you will shackling yourself like a prisoners of your past! This holds you back from experiencing your true Potential as a lover and a person.

You end up carrying that great weight of shame upon your shoulders, and the burdens upon your back.
The grudges and revenge reek havoc in your mind and the ball chained to your leg impedes you growing as a person. Only you hold the power that will let you grow and one of the keys that can set you free but this revenge can take that power from you.

It is easy to feel isolated now that the relationship is over.
You are suffering from the emotional injury left over from the breakup.
It makes you want your Ex to hurt like you do or maybe just get his or her attention.

What you need is to stop yourself from thinking that way.
Get out and go places you never could when you were with your Ex.
Get with friends and talk to them that is what they are there for.
Do it a little bit at a time.

It won't seem like you are making much progress at first but keep trying because the pain will go away.
The satisfaction is only temporary when you try getting revenge on your Ex.
When people obsess over something they seem to over think things because it is constantly on their minds.

You end up believing that revenge is the only way you are going to feel better.
What you really need is to check yourself before you wreck yourself and become a prisoner of the same revenge that was meant for your Ex.